“Coming together is a beginning; keeping together is progress; working together is success.”
I started a tradition quite a while ago of writing a recap of the year before the new one was to begin. I did start this post before 2012 began, but I just wanted to enjoy visiting with family instead of writing about it. As I begin this post, we currently are more than halfway on our 2 day drive back home to Dallas from Florida, so with the Cowboy’s game on in the background which is occupying my husband in our hotel room, now’s as good a time as any.
2011 was quite a year!! It brought both some of the hardest and greatest times in my life. Here are some of the more memorable moments:
Out of the gate of 2011, in January we had to gather all the courage, strength, and hope that comes through faith. My Mom’s Breast Cancer had come back in her bones with a vengeance. She spent her 64th birthday with her friends and family on January 21st, and then 2 days later departed this world. She still managed to cross some important things off her “Bucket List” first, including seeing me try on my wedding dress from her hospice bed; and Skyping to see her newborn Grandson, Jacob Richard — Paul & Pilar’s youngest boy — born just a few days before her birthday.
In February, before returning to Dallas, Mike surprised me and Dad with a short trip to St. Augustine, Florida. That’s a special place for me, and I hadn’t been back for many years. It was a much-needed time away together, and we wanted to pray for all those who had prayed for us during our time of need. We lit candles and prayed for you all when we visited Our Lady of La Leche at the Shrine, and walked the Sacred Acre where the 1st Mass was celebrated in the US.
Then it was back to Dallas, commencing the journey to find a new “normal.” Of course, wedding plans began immediately in high gear, to plan it in just 5 months down where Mike grew up in San Benito, TX and South Padre Island. I do not recommend grieving and destination wedding planning, but it’s just how things ended up… And so we rely on God’s grace, and those He’s given us to do what we need to.
I never even got thank you notes out to all the people who sent flowers, Mass cards, gifts, Edible Fruit displays, sympathy cards, books, and reached out in so many ways. So please know that everything meant so much to us, and we are grateful for your friendship, love, prayers and support – truly.
In March, Mike’s Mom came to Dallas and spent Spring break with us. We had fun crafting and she was our first passenger in the new vehicle that we bought. God blessed us with a fantastic deal on fully loaded red Mercury Mariner, with less than 5,000 miles on it. As hard as it was for Mike to let go of Ol’ Blue, this little crossover has served us well.
In April we went to Hollywood, Florida. I was Alyssa’s, my niece, Sponsor for her Confirmation. We had a great visit with family, and are so proud of the beautiful young lady that Alyssa has become, inside and out.
On the last day of Spring Blooms at the Dallas Arboretum, we had our Engagement photos taken. Our friends John Wehlage, and his wife Julie, did an amazing job on both our Engagement Photos and my Bridal Portraits. More photos (includes the events surrounding our wedding) are posted on our wedding site blog, the Martinez Lounge so I’ll only post a couple here:
Wow, April was really busy. We took a jam-packed wedding planning trip down to South Padre Island. It felt like a contest – how many vendors can we book in one weekend? HA! The last weekend of the month we headed to Eunice, Louisiana where I used to live and work. Our friends hosted a beautiful engagement Mass of Thanksgiving and Party, Cajun style, at Walnut Street’s Atrium of the dear Miller family — where I served at many events for others. Again, more stories and photos are all on our Martinez Lounge site.
Last year it was May Showers, Bridal Showers that is. A beautiful shower was hosted on Mother’s Day (aren’t my friends amazing??) by friends & CRHP (Christ Renews His Parish) sisters. The other was graciously hosted by St. Ann’s choir members after a Wednesday night practice. My Bachelorette Party was hosted by my Maid of Honor, Kelli, at my friend’s, Cynthia, home in Coppell. We also attended Engaged encounter, along with our NFP classes. My oldest nephew, Daniel, graduated from High School. My Dad came to stay with us before the wedding, and so we began the big move of Mike into the Condo – and it was the three of us in close quarters until the wedding. Wedding planning pretty much consumed all the other moments – LOL. Lots of photos of those great moments on our blog. I’ll leave you with a few.
That’s the first part of 2011. More to come friends, but sleep most come first!